THE 2026 AMERICAN MIDTERM ELECTIONS: AN ELECTION OF FIRSTS AND BREAKTHROUGHS
It’s Not Too Late to Be First… Election and Life Lessons for Parents

The 2026 American midterm elections have produced historic firsts:
* Amy Acton: Ohio’s first elected woman governor.
* Keisha Lance Bottoms: Georgia’s first woman and first Black governor-elect, and America’s first elected Black woman governor.
* Abdul El-Sayed: the first Muslim elected to the United States Senate.
* Deb Haaland: the first Native American woman elected governor of a U.S. state.
* Byron Donalds: Florida’s first elected Black governor.
* Gina Hinojosa: Texas’s first elected Latina governor.
These are reported victories; the incoming officials have not yet assumed office. Ohio’s distinction matters: a woman previously served briefly through succession, but had never been elected governor.
There were breakthroughs too. Democratic victories ended long-standing Republican control of the governorships in Ohio, Georgia and Texas.
Firsts open new chapters. Breakthroughs interrupt established patterns.
That is the connection I draw for parents: a long-standing pattern need not become a lifelong limit.
It’s not too late to be first.
We may ask why some milestones have taken so long. We can also ask what possibilities we have prematurely closed around our children.
“People like us do not do that.”
“Nobody in this family has ever done it.”
“You are already behind.”
Let us examine those statements before passing them on.
A family’s history should help a child understand where they come from. It should not become a boundary around what they are permitted to attempt.
Encourage preparation. Teach responsibility. Support effort. Make room for discovery. Do not measure a child’s possibilities only by what somebody else has already achieved.
You can be first in being yourself.
There is another responsibility: stand beside children when their circumstances are difficult.
Amy Acton’s journey offers one illustration. She has described childhood abuse, neglect and homelessness before studying medicine and entering public service. Her stepfather was indicted over alleged rape, pleaded not guilty and fled before trial. During the election, her opponent’s advertisement featured her estranged mother disputing her childhood account. Records corroborated key elements of that account; the advertisement drew bipartisan condemnation and later stopped airing. Its precise electoral effect is not established. In her victory remarks, Acton credited adults who supported her, including a couple who fed her and her brother.
Believe your child enough to listen seriously, stand beside them and act to protect them.
Seek appropriate professional help. Supporting a child and allowing a fair investigation belong together. Do not turn a child’s suffering into shame or ammunition.
But the parenting lesson extends beyond any candidate.
Parents can make breakthroughs at home: apologise where previous generations demanded unquestioning obedience; seek help where problems were concealed; replace humiliation with respectful correction.
We need not wait for children to make history before changing how we treat them.
For immigrant and New American families, leave room for children to value their heritage while discovering how they wish to contribute to the communities in which they live.
Across every family, resist turning inspiration into pressure.
No child should have to become a governor, senator or president to prove their worth.
A Child is a Person®.
Safety, care, education and dignity belong before achievement. A meaningful life may unfold far from public office and public applause.
Celebrate these historic firsts. Consider the breakthroughs. Then bring the reflection home.
What possibility can you support?
What harmful pattern can you interrupt?
What child needs you to stand beside them today?
It’s not too late to be first.
And it is not too late to begin a better pattern for the children coming after us.
Enlightenment is Superior to Enforcement®




